10 Ways to Look Attractive AF (it takes 30-seconds)

About this video

Kegley lists ten ways to become more attractive in about 30 seconds each, arguing attraction is largely an energy dynamic that can be taught. Do interesting things so passion makes you interesting; smile to counter a stern resting face; and handle the fit with simple neutral clothes, an iron or steamer, and regular grooming. Laugh more, which he links to bonding, lower stress, and endorphins, and remember that whoever has the most fun wins. Confidence, he argues, comes through competence and self-awareness, built in his case by a decade of journaling that reveals both strengths and flaws. Ask questions instead of hogging the mic, loosen body language by shaking out tension and breathing deeply, and use people’s names three times in the first three minutes without overdoing it. Finally, be real: authenticity and measured vulnerability give others rough edges to connect to, and show emotional intelligence by stating wants, feelings, and needs instead of accusatory ‘you’ statements.

Key takeaways

• Do interesting things; passion and curiosity are attractive in themselves
• Smile, keep clothes simple and wrinkle-free, and groom consistently
• Laugh more and ask questions instead of hogging the conversation
• Confidence follows competence and self-awareness; journal to build both
• Be authentic and emotionally steady: state wants, feelings, and needs

Episode details: published December 12, 2022 · 15:11 long. Summary written by Self Growth Videos from the episode itself. Business results and any income figures mentioned are Clark Kegley’s own claims, shared for education — they are not typical or guaranteed.

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