How to Speak Clearly & With Confidence | Matt Abrahams

About this video

Matt Abrahams, a communication expert at Stanford Graduate School of Business, teaches how to speak clearly and confidently in planned and spontaneous settings. He says he never recommends memorizing speeches, because it burdens cognitive load, and instead recommends a roadmap, structure, and familiarity with your opening. Abrahams offers tools to reduce filler words, manage stage fright, practice speaking clearly, remember facts, and synthesize what others say. He explains what authentic communication actually means and how to recover gracefully when things go wrong. For drawing out poor communicators, he advises leading with questions and giving people space to say more, sharing his mother-in-law’s small-talk secret: the three words ’tell me more.’ The conversation also reflects on why memorable public speeches seem rarer in a noisier media environment saturated with messages competing for attention.

Key takeaways

• Abrahams recommends structure and familiarity over memorizing speeches word for word.
• Abrahams advises leading with questions and saying ’tell me more’ to draw out reticent speakers.
• Abrahams offers tools for filler words, stage fright, and recovering when things go wrong.
• Abrahams explains authenticity as delivering information in your own unique voice.
• Abrahams argues a noisier media environment makes lasting, memorable speeches rarer.

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