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ResourceBest Parka for Smaller Guys? Alpha Industries N-3B Slim Fit Parka Fit Check
McGoff reviews the Alpha Industries N-3B slim fit Parka, demonstrating how it fits on his 5'6" frame and explaining why he considers …
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ResourceWhat Are BOLD Shoes, and Should You Wear Them?
McGoff explores what makes shoes 'bold' and how to incorporate them into a men's wardrobe as a stylistic progression. He identifies …
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ResourceMinimalist Men's Pants Collection (Only 6 Pairs)
McGoff presents a curated collection of six essential pants that he argues form the foundation of a minimal wardrobe: two pairs of …
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ResourceThe Only 3 Watches You Really Need | Beginner Watch Collection for Men
McGoff demonstrates how to build a versatile, budget-friendly watch collection of three watches for under $500 total. He breaks down …
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ResourceMy Outerwear Collection (8 Essential Pieces)
McGoff reviews his personal outerwear collection to help shorter men find jackets that flatter their build. He walks through each …
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ResourceHow to Wear a Flannel Shirt (Fit, Details and 3 Outfit Examples)
McGoff visits several mall retailers to try on chino shorts and evaluate their fit, comparing options from American Eagle, Banana …
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ResourcePomade vs. Putty: What's the difference?
McGoff compares Old Spice's putty and pomade hair products by demonstrating how each performs on his freshly cut hair, evaluating …
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ResourceHow to Look Taller and Leaner | 5 Style Principles You Should Follow
McGoff teaches five style techniques that shorter and leaner men can use to appear taller and more proportional. He covers proper …
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ResourceMy Shoe Collection for 2016 | Minimalist Men's Shoe Collection
McGoff walks through his personal collection of 12 regularly-worn casual and dress shoes, explaining the purpose, quality, and …
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ResourceTesting the "spoon trick" and sea salt spray | TMM Vlog #5
McGoff shares personal reflections on the importance of regularly putting yourself in humbling situations where you're surrounded by …
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ResourceHow to Keep Your Shirt Tucked In (3 Different Methods You Can Try)
McGoff presents three techniques to prevent shirts from coming untucked throughout the day. He ranks shirt stays as the most …
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ResourceBuying a Custom Suit Online? Don't Mess It Up (3 Crucial MTM Lessons)
McGoff provides guidance on confidently purchasing made-to-measure clothing online by clarifying the terminology around custom …
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Resource15 YouTube Channels You Should Watch | Best YouTube Channels for Men
McGoff shares his 15 favorite YouTube channels for men's self-improvement, spanning style, grooming, fitness, and practical skills. …
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ResourceWhat to Wear to the Airport | 5 Travel Style Tips for Men
McGoff teaches men how to balance comfort and style when traveling by air, arguing that travelers should aim for a middle ground …
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ResourceHow to Tell If Your Polo Shirts Fit | Polo Shirt Fit Guide
McGoff teaches men how polo shirts should fit, breaking down three key measurements: length (ending at mid-fly when untucked), width …
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ResourceSick of Shirts That Are Too LONG? | Ash and Erie Review (Formerly Ash & Anvil)
McGoff reviews Ash and Anvil, a clothing company that designs everyday shirts specifically for men 5'8" and under. He explains how …
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ResourceDon't Know Your Face Shape? Here's How to Find Sunglasses
McGoff provides a practical framework for selecting sunglasses based on face proportions and features rather than relying on …
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ResourceHow to Shorten AND Taper Your Pants (Using the Pinroll Cuff)
McGoff teaches the pinroll technique, a method for cuffing pants that simultaneously shortens and tapers them. He demonstrates the …
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ResourceStill Getting Acne In Your 20's and 30's? | How To Treat Adult Acne
McGoff shares his daily skincare routine designed for adult men with mild acne, emphasizing that skin care is highly individual and …
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ResourceSuper Short Side Part Hairstyle for Men
McGoff demonstrates how to style the classic short-on-sides, longer-on-top men's haircut immediately after getting it cut. He …
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ResourceSTOP Going to the Mall | 6 Pro Tips for Shopping Online
McGoff teaches six practical tips for successful online clothing shopping, addressing common frustrations with both mall and online …
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ResourceMy 2-Minute Hair Routine (No Blow Dryer!)
McGoff demonstrates his simple, two-minute daily hair routine for maintaining a basic side part without blow-dryers or excessive …
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ResourceCan Short Men Wear Double Breasted Suits?
McGoff dispels the myth that shorter men should avoid double-breasted suits by outlining three essential rules for wearing them …
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ResourceDo NOT Try to Be More Confident (Do This Instead)
McGoff argues that confidence is not a choice but a result of giving yourself reasons to trust in your abilities. He presents five …
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