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ResourceHere's what Fight Club got wrong
McGoff analyzes seven key lessons from the film Fight Club, evaluating which philosophies hold merit and which are flawed. He argues …
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ResourceEDC Fall 2024 | New Watch, Wallet & Key Setup
McGoff updates his everyday carry setup after 10 months, demonstrating how he organizes and selects items including his phone, keys, …
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Resource10 Things I Regret Buying
McGoff reflects on ten clothing and accessory purchases he regrets, explaining why each didn't work for him despite seeming like …
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Resource6 Ways to Keep Your Shirt Tucked In (But Only 1 Works)
McGoff tests six methods for keeping tucked-in shirts from coming untucked throughout the day: the military tuck, double tuck, …
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ResourceThe AD “Ruined” My Rolex Datejust
McGoff shares his decision to fully refurbish his 1984 vintage Rolex Datejust through an authorized Rolex service center, including …
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Resource27 Things Under $50 That Improve Your Life
McGoff presents over 30 affordable products under $50 across categories including clothing, home goods, everyday carry, grooming, …
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ResourceMy New Favorite Wallet, $500 Cologne, Tech Dopp Kits, a Titanium Pen, Travel Backpack & More...
McGoff showcases various products he received as samples from brands over several months, including backpacks, tech pouches, …
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ResourceAn Honest Temu Review (Not Sponsored)
McGoff purchases and reviews $250 worth of clothing and accessories from Teemu, a Chinese fast-fashion retailer, to demonstrate the …
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Resource13 Comfortable Shoe Brands Compared (Good, Bad & Ugly)
McGoff tests 13 comfort-focused shoe brands to find footwear that balances aesthetics with wearability. He argues there's typically …
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Resource20 Expensive Products That Are Worth the Money
McGoff discusses expensive purchases across personal care, fashion, footwear, office equipment, and home goods that he argues …
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ResourceAre Your Shirt Sleeves Too Long? Here's How to Fix Them
McGoff addresses the common problem of shirt sleeves being too long for shorter men. He explains two approaches: preventing the …
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ResourceAn Easier Way to Pack for a Trip (feat. Sterling Pacific Carry-On)
McGoff teaches a systematic approach to packing that eliminates stress by separating planning from execution. He demonstrates how to …
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Resource10 Things Men Shouldn't Wear in 2024 (or Ever)
McGoff presents 10 men's clothing items and styles he argues men should avoid, including hybrid dress shoes, fake watches, …
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ResourceAre These the MOST Comfortable Shoes You Can Buy?
McGoff explores New Balance's evolution from a comfort-focused running shoe brand to a lifestyle staple, sharing his personal …
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ResourceReacting to 10 Years of Outfits + Lessons Learned
McGoff reviews and critiques his personal style evolution over 10+ years of documenting his fashion journey through blog posts, …
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ResourceStop Wasting Money on Skincare Products (That Don't Actually Work)
McGoff teaches that effective skincare depends on understanding active ingredients rather than brand names or marketing claims. He …
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ResourceEvery Uniqlo T-Shirt Compared (6 Different Styles)
McGoff compares six different t-shirt styles from Uniqlo across various fabrics, fits, and price points, testing each on his frame …
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ResourceMy Everyday Carry (Winter 2023) | Practical & Premium EDC
McGoff shares his current everyday carry setup, including his iPhone 13 mini with a Nomad leather case, Nomos watches, a minimalist …
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ResourceWant People to Like You? Try These 6 Simple Tricks
McGoff shares six social techniques to make people like you, drawing from personal anecdotes and psychological research. He argues …
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ResourceAre Designer Swim Trunks Worth It?
McGoff explores whether premium swim trunks justify their high price tags by comparing cheap fast-fashion options with mid-range and …
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ResourceSaying goodbye to The Modest Man (my story)
McGoff shares his personal journey from struggling with corporate jobs and personal style insecurity to building The Modest Man into …
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ResourceDon't Buy an F-91W Before Watching This | Casio F-84W Review
McGoff discusses the Casio F-84W digital watch, a Japanese domestic model variant of the popular F-91W that he's been wearing daily …
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ResourceHow to Match Your Shoes and Suits (or Dress Shoes)
McGoff provides a comprehensive guide to matching dress shoes with suits and dress pants based on suit color. He identifies black, …
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Resource8 Levi's Jeans Fits Compared (Slim, Skinny, Tapered, Athletic & Loose)
McGoff tries on eight different Levi's jean cuts ranging from skinny to relaxed fits, demonstrating how each style fits on his 5'6", …
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