3 Signs When Someone is Using You #motivation

About this video

Shelton shares advice his late mother once gave him about recognizing when someone doesn’t care about you. According to Shelton, his mother taught him that lack of care shows up in three ways: treating you as a secondary option, taking advantage of your kindness, and disrespecting your loyalty. Shelton reflects on missing his mother and credits her wisdom for helping him understand these relationship patterns.

Key takeaways

• Shelton says people who don’t care treat you as a secondary option and only prioritize you when they need something
• According to Shelton’s mother, those who don’t care take advantage of your kindness without reciprocating
• Shelton believes people who disrespect your loyalty use your good heart as an excuse to hurt you
• Shelton encourages viewers not to let anyone make them feel insufficient

Episode details: published June 30, 2026 · 82.3K views · 1:11 long. Summary written by Self Growth Videos from the episode itself. The talks summarized here are Trent Shelton’s own words and beliefs, presented for education; summaries are written by Self Growth Videos from each episode itself.

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