Some people just want to use you #mentalhealth
About this video
Shelton tells a parable about a selfless man who consistently prioritized others’ needs over his own well-being, working tirelessly and helping everyone who asked. The story illustrates how this man gave until he was completely depleted, ultimately dying from exhaustion, only to have few people attend his funeral. Shelton uses this narrative to warn about the dangers of overextending oneself and the difference between being loved and being used.
Key takeaways
- Shelton warns that constantly saying yes to others while ignoring your own needs leads to burnout and depletion
- According to Shelton, there is an important distinction between being genuinely loved and being used by others
- Shelton suggests that self-sacrifice without boundaries can leave you unsupported when you need help most
Episode details: published June 17, 2025 · 4K views · 1:47 long. Summary written by Self Growth Videos from the episode itself. The talks summarized here are Trent Shelton’s own words and beliefs, presented for education; summaries are written by Self Growth Videos from each episode itself.
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