Some people just want to use you #motivation #trentshelton
About this video
Shelton addresses the pain of one-sided relationships where people use rather than genuinely support you. He urges viewers to recognize users who only value what they can extract, arguing that non-reciprocal relationships should be ended. Shelton encourages surrounding yourself with people who genuinely appreciate and pour into you, and reassures viewers not to feel guilty about cutting off those who take advantage.
Key takeaways
- Shelton argues some people enter your life not to love you but to use you for what you can offer them
- According to Shelton, if a relationship lacks reciprocity, it should be ended—stop supporting people who disappear when you need them
- Shelton advises not to feel guilty about removing users from your life, as they handed you the scissors by their own behavior
Episode details: published November 9, 2025 · 6.9K views · 2:25 long. Summary written by Self Growth Videos from the episode itself. The talks summarized here are Trent Shelton’s own words and beliefs, presented for education; summaries are written by Self Growth Videos from each episode itself.
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