In this video, Esther Hicks, known as Abraham Hicks, explores the concept of finding love and appreciation within oneself. She emphasizes the importance of not relying on external sources, such as other people, for validation and love. Instead, she suggests that individuals can tap into a steady source of love by connecting with their inner being or inner self.

Esther Hicks explains that seeking love and validation from others can be inconsistent because it depends on their behavior and circumstances. It is not a steady source of love. However, she suggests that by focusing on loving oneself and others, individuals can experience that warm and fuzzy feeling associated with love. This means appreciating oneself, acknowledging personal greatness, and extending love and appreciation to others.

She goes on to explain that when someone holds you as their object of attention and appreciates you, it feels wonderful because Source energy (the universal life force) is flowing through them to you. However, she emphasizes that each individual has their own direct connection to Source energy, and they don’t need someone else to feel that love and appreciation. One can tap into that love by connecting with their inner being, which is always aligned with Source energy and always flowing love.

The discussion then shifts towards relationships, specifically the dynamics of commitment and freedom. Esther Hicks mentions that women often desire commitment while men often desire freedom. She explains that when individuals try to control or demand commitment from their partner, it can create resistance and push the partner away. Instead, she advises individuals to focus on their own alignment, happiness, and well-being. By doing so, they become a vibrational match to what they desire, and the universe will bring forth the cooperative components to manifest a fulfilling relationship.

Esther Hicks encourages individuals to engage in a 30-day challenge of finding happiness within themselves. By focusing on activities and thoughts that bring joy, individuals align with their own resources and become a magnet for positive experiences. She suggests avoiding trying too hard or worrying about specific outcomes and instead directing attention to other aspects of life. By finding happiness independently, individuals can have a more fulfilling and balanced relationship with others.

Overall, the video emphasizes the importance of self-love, appreciation, and alignment with one’s own inner being. By finding love within oneself and focusing on personal happiness, individuals can attract positive relationships and experiences into their lives.